Am I A Real Texan? What Makes Someone A Texan?
In addition to this blog you’re reading, I’m also a featured politics reader-blogger at the Houston Chronicle. At that space, I’ve often been criticized by readers for not being a native Texan. They say I’m a carpetbagging Yankee.
Here’s how the subject was addressed by a Chronicle blog reader who goes by the name typical_white_man——-”TexasLiberal=Yankee nit-wit! The whole piece is worthless because as 5genTexas so aptly provided the definition for treason, which the YankeeLiberal (there is nothing Texan about this idiot!) was clueless.”
This reader was writing in response to my post that Texas Republicans are talking treason.
Am I a real Texan? What makes a real Texan?
Let’s see—
I was born in 1967 in Worcester, Massachusetts. I did not live there long.
Between 1968 and 1980 I lived in Providence, Rhode Island. Below you see a picture I took last year of the Providence hurricane dam. Just as I could tell you about Hurricane Ike, my father could tell you about the 1938 New England Hurricane.
While living in Rhode Island, I was a Rhode Islander.

Between 1980 and 1998 I lived in Cincinnati, Ohio. Below you see a picture of Cincinnati I took from a city park maybe two years ago. (Here is a story on the damage Hurricane Ike did in Cincinnati last year. My parents were without power for a time.)
While living in Ohio, I was an Ohioan.

From 1998 until the current day I’ve lived in Houston, Texas. Below is my windswept rainswept Hurricane Ike photo of a flooding Buffalo Bayou to show that I do live in Houston, Texas.

What am I while living in Texas?
You got it!— I’m a Texan!
It does not matter that I spent 13 years in New England or that I lived for 18 years in the Midwest.
All that I need to be a Texan is to live in Texas. I’ve been a Texan for 11 years.
Texas has 24 million people. No one thing defines all these people except the fact that they live in Texas. Definitions of what makes someone a “real Texan” or a “true Texan” are sure to leave many people out.
All I’ve got to do to be a Texan is live in Texas.
A better way to identify people would be to see them as individuals. This is better than creating a definition based on one’s own inevitably limited and erroneous assumptions of what defines a certain place. (Here is my autobiography in 220 words.)
If what you see below is your image of a Texan, you are free to have that thought. But when you try to impose that notion on others, I’m afraid I’m going to have to ask you to ride off into the sunset.

I was born and raised in Texas (as were both of my parents), and I’m proud to say you’re a real Texan in my eyes.
Thank you Jobsanger. I also declare you an honorary Rhode Islander and Ohioan.
Great argument, but I am sad to say typical_white_man most likely will always think otherwise. Even though I was born in Houston, Texas, I am sure typical_white_man would exclude me as being real because I am female. Personally, I am embarrassed that someone with his mindset is from Texas
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I am glad you are in Houston, Texas because then I can be proud that a Texan has such smart things and thought provoking things to say.
Just look at the username: typical white man.
Now, just what is a typical white man?
Peggy–Well, if its any solace–and I know it is not— people like that live all over. Texas does seem though to have a few extra like that.
Saleema–People are smart only if they have the support and blessings of other smart people.
I was born and raised in Texas, as was my parents and grandparents. Third generation Texan here and proud of it.
However, after living here for 39 years, I would gladly move to a cooler climate if I ever won the lottery. I would love to live in a climate where an A/C isn’t really necessary.
Jody–Thank you for your comment. Maybe you could move up the Panhandle where they at least have a winter.
You are not a real Texan unless you was born here. Go home yankee!
I was born and raised my first 19 yrs in texas but I’m not proud to be one. I think that most of the texan people are snobs, full of pride. They say everything in texas is big. That’s true they all walk around with a big heads. If living in texas makes you a texan then I’m glad I’m a phoenician.
i am not proud of what men do but i can still be proud as a man. i am not proud of what white men have done through history but i can still be proud of being white, you can still be proud of being a texan even if you dont agree or feel the same as the avg.
sir,
I am a texan, yet I do not live in Texas. I moved to hawaii years ago, but I will never be hawaiian. It is not the fact that you live in Texas that makes you texan. It is the collective experience we all had growing up there. I sit here, after midnight, yearning for for the youth that I never wish for my daughter. You see the texan experience is both heaven and hell. I will not go into detail here about my youth. I will say that at first texas was a wasteland that nobody wanted. We took that land and made something great of it. When the mexican government saw what we could do, they wanted it back. We fought and died for it. And when I say we, I mean members of my family died for it. Being raised with the values of making something out of nothing through hard work, and being ready to die for your principles, that is texan. True Texans have always been outsiders. A true texan should embrace individual thought and respect the thoughts of others. Respecting others is texan. In my saying that living in Texas does not make you Texan, understand that I am not trying to exclude you in anyway. But understand, no matter where I go, no matter where I am, I will always be haunted by the fact that I am Texan. It is not something that I can cast aside and it is not ego. People have made fun of the way I talk, the fact that I say yes mam and yes sir. My wife(not a texan) has given me tons of shit over the years about my “cowboy” mentality when it comes to injuries and such. People have implied to me that those of us from texas are ignorant, and bunch of backwoods dumbasses. There have really been times, when I wished I did not have to say I was from Texas. I am. Texas made me who I am. I am sorry I have written so much. Just please understand, I am a Texan if I like it or not. You don’t get to just decide to be as much. You might as well decide that since you can fly in a plane that you are a bird.
You think that because you live in Houston you’re a Texan? That’s funny, since out here in rural Texas we don’t even think of Houston as being in Texas. Be that as it may, I could move to Las Vegas tomorrow and never be a card shark. There’s more to it than your address.
1. Do you love Texas? You don’t say you do. I grew up in Indiana but I absolutely love Texas. I adore her and I will never leave her. Where would I go?
2. Do you respect Texas? Your rambling, disjointed post mocks those of us who believe in the cowboy on the horse. You even suggest that we ride off into the sunset. That’s not very Texan.
No Hoss, you may live here but you’re no Texan. You don’t love Texas. You mock her. You don’t respect those of us who feel differently than you. You show contempt towards us. I don’t know of a single Texan who would act as you do. You may fancy yourself whatever you please, but you act like a Yankee carpetbagger.
If you want to be a Texan, it’s up to you, Hoss. Love. Respect for those you disagree with. Common courtesy. An optimistic attitude combined with a propensity to look forward rather than look back on places like New England and Ohio.
One last thought, Hoss. A real Texan doesn’t have anything to prove to anyone. You want to be a Texan? Then be one.
God Bless.
As long as I pay taxes to the State of Texas, I can define being Texan in anyway I wish. Nobody appears to be refusing my tax dollars. The notion that the largest city in Texas is not really a part of Texas gives a sense of how open your views are on the subject. There is no “common courtesy” at all in that view
Holy Smokes!
Reading some of these comments has me thinking Texas is mean spirited. My Wife and I are transplants from New York and currently living in Puerto Rico.
We are looking forward to moving to Texas and settling down outside of Austin in the Bastrop area. We talk all the time about how good it’s going to be, to be in Texas. We’re excited about moving to the Lone Star State and can’t wait to set foot in the lower 48 again, then drive across that Texas state line!
Are we in for a rude awakening? Are people going to look down on us and call us yankee carpetbaggers. And to the individual who wrote, “You are not a real Texan unless you was born here. Go home yankee!” with an exclamation point no less!
Holy smokes again! Really?
Can I offer you a beer and a handshake and call a truce to a stereotype I would prefer to not get involved with?
We ARE coming and we sure hope to find nice people as neighbors. See ya when we get there! Enjoy the day!
The thing that settles this argument is the King of the Hill episode called “Yankee Hankee”. look it up on youtube. i was born in chicago but my folks moved here when i was 6 months old. lived here my whole life as far as im concerned. I am Texan. you dont have to be a native Texan to be a Texan. Example: Davy Crockett Jim Bowie, and most of the great men that fought at the Alamo… My dad who was raised in tennessee used to always say, If it weren’t for tennessee there’d be no Texas.